Rachel
Ibbotson Fielding and her daughter, Mary, had much in common. Both converted from the faith of their parents to other religions. Both married widowers (though both were determined not to) and had a difficult time raising stepchildren. They married religious leaders and became mothers of religious leaders. Both were pious women and strict disciplinarians. |
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Rachel was raised in a strict Calvinist home. Orphaned as a child. Converts
to Methodism. Marries widower and Methodist minister, John Fielding §. Three sons became Methodist or Anglican ministers and three daughters married prominent religious leaders §.Known for acts of
charity, Rachel had A stern and pious mother, Rachel was known for her acts of charity, and she always had "a word in season for all" §. |
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November 30, 1767 in Halifax, Yorkshire, England, the second of four children and the only daughter. |
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Except where noted, information about Rachel comes her daughter's published essay, Rachel Fielding memoir. |
Died |
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October 15, 1828 in Yorkshire, England. |
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Father |
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John Ibbotson (1745–1781) |
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Mother |
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Hannah Foster (1739–1781) |
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Strict
Calvinists
Orphaned at 7
Then raised by irreligious uncle |
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Twenty-year-old Rachel
Ibbotson was taking a leisurely stroll with a friend. Suddenly a woman rushed
past them, late for church. Normally Rachel might not have taken notice,
for she was not strictly religious notnot since her parents died
and she had gone to live with her father's brother in Denham. Raised a strict
Calvinist, with no witness of redeeming grace, she had imagined herself
one of those poor, wretched souls destined for eternal damnation. As a child
she "would gladly have exchanged condition with brute creatures, thinking
their state far preferable to her own." But in Denham, fashion, plays,
cards, and other amusements gradually replaced her anxiety.
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father's brother: Matthews states that John Ibbotson had two brothers.
The Ancestral File lists threeJohn (b. 1766), William (b. 1770), and
Thomas (b. ca. 1774)and an older sister, Sarah (b. 1742). |
Providential
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But Rachel was still
a believer. "O! how I wish I was like that woman!" she exclaimed.
She should be in church, not out pleasure walking. Spurning her friend's
protestations, Rachel followed the woman into the chapel, where the minister's
sermon was, "How shall we escape if we neglect so great salvation?"
She was deeply convicted of her sins, and at the same time inspired by the
hope of redemption.
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Wesleyans |
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Unlike Calvinists,
who relied wholly on the inscrutable will of God for salvation, followers
of John Wesley believed in a universal atonement. Salvation was available
to all who confessed Jesus as Lord. In addition, perfection was attainable
through grace and the methodical application of Christian principles. Methodists
aspired to sanctification through the "second blessing" of the
Holy Spirit. These teachings, and the use of lay preachers, rankled Calvinists
and threatened to split the Church of England.
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Rachel
becomes a Methodist |
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Rachel, however, was
not concerned about church polity, it was personal salvation she sought.
She joined the Methodists and shortly thereafter received a powerful assurance
that her sins had been forgiven and her course was approved by God.
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Marries
John Fielding, Methodist preacher and widower |
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Four years later she
married John Fielding, a Methodist
preacher seven years her senior. John was a widower with a ten-year-old
girl and a five-year-old boy. |
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Honeydon |
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John and Rachel had
been married four years when, in 1794, his godfather, a maternal uncle in
northeastern Bedfordshire, invited John to take charge of a farm at Honeydon,
four miles west of St. Neots in Bedfordshire. After visiting the site, John
had to admit that the land was poor and the accommodations inconvenient,
but he wanted to be a farmer.
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godfather:James Dyson. Mary, 7. |
Providential
call in scripture |
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When
he opened the Bible, his eye fell on a passage that he interpreted as confirmation
of his desire. But Rachel continued to oppose the move. After considerable
discussion John opened the Bible again, and again his eyes fell on a confirming
passage. He was sure he had "a providential call" to move to Honeydon. |
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Joseph
Fielding referrs to this practice as application of scriptures. ¶
Joseph Fielding Letter (1841) |
Preacher
without pay |
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In Honeydon, John continued
his career as a Methodist preacher, which meant he often rode ten to thirty
miles on Sundays to preach, without financial compensation.
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¶
Joseph Fielding Letter (1841) |
Rachel
a religious enthusiast |
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For Rachel the move meant
exchanging her comfortable home in an urban center for a small rural cottage,
and a circle of lifelong friends for the company of strangers. Making a
virtue of necessity, she threw herself into the religious life of the village,
speaking in class meetings, leading prayer meetings, and injecting religion
wherever she went. Slackers "hardened in iniquity" often found
themselves on the receiving end of "affectionate expostulations." |
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Rachel's
charity |
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Rachel's children praised
her as a model of Christian piety and benevolence. "It was a maxim
with her," wrote Ann,
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that whatever is given to relieve the necessities of the poor, is,
if given in a right spirit, lent to the Lord.
Frequently, when
asked by her children, Mother, where is such or such a thing?'
she would pleasantly reply, "O, my dear, it is gone to heaven!"
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John's
charity
Lived in a Biblical world |
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As for John, "Like
Cornelius of old, he feared God with all his house, prayed to God always,
and gave alms to the people to the utmost of his means," Joseph Fielding recalled,
"and God in his mercy, by particular applications of scriptures, gave
him promises
he only obtained a particular impression on his mind
on an application of some promise made to the Former-Day Saints."
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However, "several
years" before John died,
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Became
disillusioned with Methodism |
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although he had been so long and so firmly attached to the Methodist
cause, while he evidently increased in the spirit, and drew nearer to
God as he drew nearer his end, yet he appeared to be entirely weaned from
that body; in fact, he long lamented its corrupt state.
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Family
saw parallels with Israel |
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We often used to think that we must be in some way
related to the children of Israel, because we saw the dealings of God
with us resembled his dealings with them, though of course far inferior,
for the Lord did not personally visit us, neither did angels minister
to us as they used to do in those days.
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Upper Canada (1832–1837) |
Religious
education, ministers |
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The children were well
schooled in religious matters. The eldest sons, John
and James, became Methodist ministers; the eldest daughter, Ann, married
Timothy Matthews, who became the curate of Colmworth. |
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Timothy
was born June 26, 1795 in Lincolnshire and died September 4, 1845 in Bedford.
curate: A member of the clergy engaged as a paid assistant or deputy to
an incumbent in the Church of England or in the Roman Catholic Church in
Ireland. |
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Mormon children
Mission to congregations of James and Timothy |
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The fourth, sixth, and
ninth children, Joseph, Mary, and Mercy Rachel, became prominent figures
in early Mormon history. In 1837 Joseph and several other Mormon missionaries,
including apostles Heber C. Kimball and Orson Hyde, converted much of James'
congregation to Mormonism and baptized many members of Timothy's church
as well. |
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Men with a Mission, 2940
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Live
in the Spirit
Have a word for all |
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Not given to praise
or flattery, Rachel's expressed her love for her children in prayer and
in firmly "opposing the gratification of every desire which she knew
to be prejudicial to their best interests." She had high expectations.
Her parting words of counsel to her children were, "You must live in
the Spirit, and walk in the Spirit, if you would be useful, and have a word
in season for all."
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Impending
financial ruin |
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This might also have
been a reminder to Mary herself, for her father, at seventy-three, was unable
to farm and family finances were deteriorating rapidly. |
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